Take it Like a Woman!
Our DD lifestyle first originated in the bedroom. For some reason, it's not as taboo in the bedroom as it is in everyday life- so understandably that's where we started first.
Even today, several months into our DD marriage, it's still a challenge for me to remember everyday, every moment, that I am to be obedient for my husband, my HOH. This starts when I wake up in the mornings, because going to bed after a good spanking, it's easier to forget.
So I wake in the morning, go about my day as usually until, whether an hour into my day or an hour before my HOH gets home, I come across a challenge. Something presents itself in which I must chose: to obey or not to obey?
The answer is different every time. Either I feel he won't find out... or perhaps I want to be spanked because I'm feeling a little insecure... or maybe I feel he's wrong to expect me to act a certain way in that instance?
And everyday I mess up. It's a given. Today I completely abandoned the one single chore he asked me to do all week. I simply forgot, other things were more important to me. (I'm a horrible housekeeper!) So today's answer is: I can be expecting a few extra swats tonite.
Turn on? Yes, it's a terrific and intriuging show of his masculinity; but only until he really pulls me to him and has me lay down for him. And at that point I will be humbled and become sincerely regretful and embarassed of my actions, which is the goal, and which wouldn't happen unless he really did follow through with the spanking. Now do you see my need for this?
Much like how a child is disciplined: for their own good. Only unlike a child, I have the maturity to say, "Yes I deserve and need this discipline", so I willingly lay down and present my bottom on command. In the rare instance where I do struggle, or fuss and fight his loving discipline he needs to give me- later I'm embarassed that I didn't lay down and take it like a woman!