Emmy's FAQ

Q: Are you abused?

A: No. Trust me. Emmy's hubby loves her very much, and he does not mistake discipline for abuse or discipline out of anger. Emmy could stop him at any time, but she choses not to because she needs her spankings and disciplines. Sometimes she squirms or tries to get out of it, but he doesn't let her, and she is thankful for it in the end. Emmy and her HOH love each other sooo much.

Q: Why do you submit when your "HOH" has all the control?

A: Firstly, Emmy gives him the control, and is happier for it too! Emmy believes man and women are beautiful creatures, created and designed to complete each other. But what would be the point of partnership if you both didn't need each other for completion? Thus, our Creator made us equal, but VERY different. And Emmy and her HOH embrace that. They think it's beautiful, and are not threatened by it. Rather, Emmy gladly surrenders control to her HOH, since he is naturally designed to handle it. Likewise, Emmy takes care of the nurtuting and beautiful feminine side. HOH couldn't do it without Emmy, and Emmy couldn't do it with out her HOH. Luckily, they both realize it, so this is not HOH just being some macho chauvanist. Emmy proudly submits to HOH because it makes her happy, their relationship harmonious, and takes a huge weight off her shoulders so she doesn't have to worry- it's his job to provide and protect! Yay.

Q: Are the spankings really necessary?

A: Yes. Emmy knows she gets out of hand without them, and it's the ultimate reassurance that HOH will take care of her, and needs her trust. Not every couple has to spank to carry out a healthy D/s relationship (the most natural relationship, in Emmy's opinion!) but it does help a lot since Emmy and HOH were both raised in a society that teaches women to rebel against their natural femininity. In the end (no pun inteneded) the spanking help Emmy be a better person, and she knows it.

Q: Is this just some kinky sex thing?

A: Nope. Emmy and HOH took it out of the bedroom a long time ago, they don't use spankings for foreplay. Spankings are serious results from when Emmy gets out of hand. In bed, however, their natural places as husband and wife take place beautifully in some forms. Emmy really enjoys submitting in bed and pleasing her HOH, and she's found that when she does so, her HOH returns to the love 100% and makes sure she's well cared for in all respects. Before Emmy and her HOH embraced this lifestyle as the most natural form, they fought in bed, were selfish, and didn't care about the other's pleasure. It was sad.

Q: How often is Emmy spanked?

A: Every night almost. Sometimes she gets off lucky (although she often regrets that) and HOH forgets. But most everynight Emmy is asked to lay down for her HOH, and she does knowing full well what is coming. He spanks her depending on her day- how much did she disrespect him? Or disrespect herself? Talk back? and so on and so forth. She also recieves maintenance spankings which help her remember to be good when her HOH is gone. Usually these occur once a week. There are a few other forms of discipline HOH uses with Emmy, they include taking away her privilages (computer, etc) and no sexual release if she fools around without him during the day. She gladly surrenders her body to HOH as he does to her as well. Thus, they aren't to please themselves alone. Emmy gets out of hand sometimes, and HOH reminds her through discipline that it's his right as a husband to be with her in all her sexual adventures. Emmy feels guilty over this since her HOH is always good about saving his "fun" for her as well...but she's learning!

Q: You mean your husband controls when you masturbate?

A: Yes, and Emmy started this rule! But she's no "slave", he allows her the free will to do it when she pleases, but she wants to be held accountable when she doesn't include him in their most intimate marital relationship. It's not fair, after all. Emmy loves giving him this gift more than any other, so she willingly submits to his control over her sexual release- why? Because she trusts him. Like I said, he always makes sure she's taken care of, and is not selfish in the slightest. So why shouldn't she trust him?

Q: I think you're messed up.

A: That's not a question, but a valid concern. Emmy is happily married, loves her husband, feels more loved than ever, enjoys a chivalrous & intimate relationship with her husband, respects her husband, her husband respects and cherishes her. Why are you concerned? There's no need for that. She's more free than ever, and loves submission and the masculinity her husband has. It's beautiful!

Q: Why are you talking in third person?

A: Emmy likes it.

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